The Disturbing Trend of Excusing Violence While Ignoring Victim Suffering in Society

Excusing Violence - Ignoring Victims

Recently, society has seen a troubling change in how we view and respond to acts of violence. This trend, often called "upside-down morality," tends to excuse perpetrators while ignoring their victims' suffering. Cases like those of trans shooters Audrey Hale in Tennessee and Robert/Robin Westman in Minneapolis highlight this upsetting story, as focus often shifts from the victims to the actions of the perpetrators.

Media coverage of these incidents often highlights the mental health struggles faced by individuals like Hale and Westman. Their violent actions are depicted as reactions to their gender dysphoria and feelings of oppression. While understanding mental health issues is essential, we must also recognize that violence is never justified, no matter the circumstances. When attention is given to the shooters' personal battles, the devastating effects they cause can be overlooked, allowing a harmful narrative to emerge that justifies violence instead of condemning it.

Discussions about mental health often overlook the potential effects of medical treatments. For example, hormonal therapies and antidepressants can markedly influence a person's mental state. Yet, these factors are rarely discussed after violent incidents. Usually, society tends to excuse the actions of those who commit violence, setting a dangerous precedent that reduces accountability.

When individuals behave violently, it is crucial to condemn their actions immediately. Being transgender or having mental health issues does not exempt anyone from being responsible for what they do. Labeling violence as a response to personal struggles can hide how serious the crime is.

The tendency to excuse violence isn't limited to debates about gender identity. A similar pattern appears in discussions about homelessness and crime. The tragic murder of Iryna Zarutska in Charlotte clearly illustrates this point. After her death, Mayor Vi Lyles stressed that society shouldn't demonize the homeless community. This view prioritizes compassion for the offender over seeking justice for the victim, raising essential questions about our values and the consequences of offering more empathy to offenders than to victims.

The case of Rashad Dabney, a homeless man who murdered retired professor Julie Schnuelle, highlights these issues. Despite a lengthy criminal record, Dabney was still free to commit another violent crime. This highlights the shortcomings of systems designed to protect society and underscores the need for more robust accountability measures. When accountability is missing, cycles of violence and victimization continue.

Victims of violence often go unrecognized in crime stories. Their experiences, the grief of their families, and the broader impact on their communities are frequently overlooked. As a society, we need to shift our focus from blaming the perpetrators to acknowledging the profound suffering inflicted on innocent people. When someone commits an act of violence, they should face quick and certain punishment if proven guilty.

The therapeutic society we inhabit often presents mitigating circumstances that can delay or soften the consequences for those who commit acts of violence. This undermines justice and conveys the notion that certain individuals may be exempt from being held accountable. The tragic reality is stark; witnesses to Iryna Zarutska's murder did not intervene, even as she collapsed. Three bystanders passed her by, possibly fearing legal repercussions or simply lacking the courage to help. This reflects a broader societal issue in which empathy for victims often hinges on their perceived status or identity.

The lack of compassion for victims—unless they fit a specific narrative—is a trend that requires urgent attention. Society must not place the struggles of the perpetrator above the pain of the victim. Acts of violence have a ripple effect, impacting families, friends, and entire communities. It is time to reshape the narrative to ensure that victims receive the empathy and support they deserve, no matter their background or situation.

The rising trend of excusing violence while overlooking the suffering of victims highlights a societal challenge. We must strive to foster a culture that prioritizes justice for victims and holds perpetrators accountable. Recognizing the immense suffering caused by violence allows us to heal the wounds it inflicts and encourages a society where compassion is directed toward those who suffer, rather than those who perpetrate harm.

As we navigate these complex issues, let us remember that every life lost to violence is a tragedy that deserves acknowledgment and respect. It is essential to advocate for victims, ensuring their stories are heard, their pain recognized, and their lives honored. Doing so is the first step toward breaking the cycle of violence and building a more compassionate society for everyone.

Visit americaninsanity.org to learn how to become "The Informed Citizen" and gain valuable insights into the issues facing our communities.